My wife and I don't have cable, Direct or Dish. Not interested. But I can't say that I don't watch the tele when I'm overnight in a hotel. And no matter what, I always switch to comedy central. It gives me my comedy fix for a week at a time.
Saturday, February 12, 2011
Who wants to be a comedian?
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
...so much more than just a dream...
An intriguing remedy to complacency is a swift kick in the ass from a dear friend.
And suddenly realizing you love something far more than you've known.
Opportunities are often obscured by one's perspective. I would consider myself extremely blessed with my upbringing. I have a terrific work ethic, a strong sense of social justice, and an otherworldly ability to empathize while listening wholeheartedly to another human being (ßrun on). I thank my dad for my work ethic. I thank my mom for my good sense of right and wrong. And I thank the world for providing a continual need for someone to listen to their story.
Around every corner, we can assume there is a story about everything from the trees planted in the ground to the skyscraper dividing the horizon. Someone needs to tell their story, and often times I'm willing to set aside my every thought for a moment of sharing. I'm not complaining about it at all, just contemplating my worth. In a sense, I've somewhat shifted and devalued my time to give it up for someone else. Selfless as that sounds, it is true on all too many occasions. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE to hear what has to be said, but I've been awakened recently to the story of my life. Unfortunately, I’ve been missing my life.
Take a deep breath in through your mouth, and exhale slowly through your nose. Repeat twice, then read on.
Call it selfish, call it stupidity, call it whatever, but I'm finally noticing the real sacrifice of my decisions to remain the person I currently am. It is an act that I truly haven't asked permission to be. Granted, it works. My family and I get by, but is it truly who I want to be? Of course not. What I want is to be more of a central piece in this family than I currently am. If someone were to view a film strip spanning the lives of Nicole and I, I'm sure they would say we are a great couple. But I would know the difference in what I envisioned for us than their perspective of what our lives look like. I'm torn by my iniquities. I want this to go on no further!
I beg for forgiveness from the potential we've had! We could be so much greater than we are! I am that much better of a person to realize my vows to my wife mean more than what I've regarded them. Imagine having the skill of Van Gogh, but only doodling two point perspectives for eternity! What a waste! No more!
Love can give a lot more!
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
And of Humor
Hello, is this thing on? Testing, testing, 1,2,3,4. OK, good, how are you doing? Funny me finding myself thinking about you finding me blogging. Who knew. With the time constraints on my life, sharing my thoughts on a regular basis haven't and aren't a real priority. Then I found out about sleeping habits. I don't have any.
I don't sleep enough. My family doctor would agree. I agree with her. I should take her advice seriously and try to get extra sleep, but I've suddenly realized that I would be cheating the world and myself out of some of the humor I see day in and day out. So I've decided to share for memory and for you.
Life is funny. The way I see it, life is far too short to not have fun. And by that I mean being responsible, taking care of business, but making sure there is time set aside for having a great time.
Laughter is the best medicine. I probably laugh at too many things, but it doesn't mean I don't get it. I am the kind of person who sees the humor in everything. Its my choice. No one can take that away from me. Most people I know see my face and recognize my smirk. I'm either delighted to see them, or I've somehow been humored by happenstance. I look at a wasp nest and its funny how that often tiny stem holds that thing in the air! Amazing! I wonder what kind of superglue spit was chewed up and regurgitated to help suspend that house in the air. Like me eating something sweet and sticky (lets say honey since we're talking stinging creatures) puking it back up and packing the bricks of our homes like mortar. Freaking amazing and funny!!
I've found humor to be hard to classify, this sight does a pretty good job of it http://www.iep.utm.edu/humor/
We'll talk more when I return after no commercial messages!